My fellow humans,
It was the onset of the pandemic. Like many of us, I was by myself at home. My housekeeper called to say she would be absent for the forseeable future, because of (an indefinite) lockdown; I was left to shift for myself. My parents were in their home in another town, also by themselves. It would be a few months before I would see them again (or anyone for that matter).
During this time, I happened to watch a few documentaries on climate change. Despite being aware of the issues surrounding climate change beforehand, the films I saw were eye-opening for me — I learned what truly is at stake for us. Truth be told, I was horrified and disgusted at the ways we are destroying our planet; it brought me to tears.
In that moment, I felt deep love for this planet. I felt we only have ONE Home (because we do) and we must do everything in our power to protect it. At the same time, I knew our planet is going to keep on spinning with or without us, and we need to think about our survival.
Watching the documentaries, I learned about the different ways our actions are collectively impacting our planet (and, by extension, our future), thereby, notably causing the twin crises (climate change and nature loss).
It was apparent to me that the true (hidden) cause was our overconsumption — we use way more resources than we need. I found that the twin crises (output) is simply a result of overconsumption (inputs), of which the other issues (deforestation, plastic pollution, fossil fuels, etc.) happen to be its symptoms. It’s only when you look at these issues through the lens of overconsumption, does it all make sense. But, we need to treat the root cause.
It turns out the real underlying problem we’ve been overlooking all along is our collective greed. Not only is our greed via our overconsumption (manifested through different symptoms) causing our planet’s temperature and sea levels to rise (among other challenges), but it’s also the leading cause of our unhappiness.
Gandhi has said, “The world has enough [resources] for everyone’s need, but not enough for everyone’s greed.” I couldn’t agree more.
We are (inadvertently) using our greed, indifference, and short-sightedness to destroy our own future. Our greed stems from looking for solutions to our inner issues outside of us (through people, places, things, events), but we cannot solve our inner challenges with outer experiences.
The tragic irony is the more we want (outside), the more we’ll be left insatiated (inside). More is not the answer. It will never be the answer, because there is no end to it (and because we don’t need it). The sooner we learn, the better. It’s one of the things I’ve learned the hard way in my own life.
If something isn’t in the interest of our planet, it can’t be in our interest either; the two are inextricably connected, but we need our planet more than our planet needs us.
Unfortunately, time is running out for us. The truth is no one is going to come and save us from ourselves. The way we are living isn’t working for our planet or for us, and we need to take action.
While we continue to make others (organizations and governments) do the right thing, how we live our daily lives will make a far bigger difference to our survival as a species in the long run.Tired of ignoring my inner voice (for far too long), I too, feel called to step up and make things better (like many of us).
I want to inspire others (including myself) to live a more meaningful life, so that together, we can create a better future for our children and grandchildren. Because, what’s the point of living, if not for making the world better than we found it, so that others may continue to thrive after we are gone?
This requires a collective shift in our philosophical outlook (in our thinking, language, and actions) in how we live. I call this philosophy, “living a less, but better life.”
The term “less, but better” comes from a design approach and belief coined by German industrial designer Dieter Rams in the 20th century. He said, “Good design is as little design as possible – less, but better.”
Here’s what a less, but better life looks like to me:
Join the movement
Hi. I am a philosopher. I believe there is no greater success in the world than rightful living — how we live matters more than what we do. If we focus on our actions and strive to be our best, together, we can change the world.
I wake up every day to inspire others (including myself) to be our best selves, so that together, we may all live a life that matters. I help others simplify their lives, set changes in motion, and do things joyfully. I do this through writing, coaching/consulting, speaking, and community building.
Imagine a world in which we…
- Focus on the (human) being first, and the “doing” second
- Let love guide our thoughts, words, and actions
- Depart from living a reactive, fast-paced life to living a slower, proactive one
- Give everything we do the time and attention it deserves, because how we do anything is how we do everything
- Shift from living for ourselves to living in service of others (without undermining ourselves)
- Use our strengths to complement others’ weaknesses
- Do fewer things well in the short term, so we can do more in the long term
- Stop making our work the center of our lives and start making our work a part of it
- Realize that our profits don’t have to come at the cost of our planet (we can have both, and it’s the only way forward)
- Move from short-term thinking to making better long-term choices
- Live our lives as if we were complete (because we are)
- Stop looking for happiness in outside experiences and realize it’s within
- Retire from constantly wanting more to being content with what we have
- Base our actions on what is in the best interest of our planet, because that will ultimately be in our interest as well
This is the less, but better philosophy. Living this way has transformed my life in more ways than I can count. And, it has the power to transform yours as well. This also happens to be the vision of the world I want to live in.
I believe if the vast majority of us live our lives this way, we can create a happier and sustainable planet, not only for our generation to survive but, more importantly, for future generations to thrive. And isn’t that worth living for?
The best way to build this world is to commit to building it together. I’m looking for as many people as possible to help me advance this cause.
I hope you’ll join me on this journey of a lifetime, so that together, we can start a movement, and inspire others along the way.
P.S. I’m not naive enough to think I’ll realize this vision in my lifetime. That’s not the point. My goal is to keep working towards this vision alongside others, and when the time comes, they can keep advancing this cause long after I am gone.